Category Archives: Barriers

Barriers: “When are you leaving?”

Hope this doesn’t sound whiny…But, if anyone wonders why we can’t/won’t give an exact day for departure; think a little.  For a vacation, book a ticket, reserve a room, maybe stop the paper and find someone to feed the dog.  You’ll be back in a week, so some things don’t really matter.  We are trying to plan a year’s bills, empty our bedroom/prepare the house for another tenant, clear and organize the basement, clear David’s mother’s house (you know the rule; if you haven’t used it in 12 years, it is trash), finish the camper, create a home we’ll live in for months and make a 1995 Toyota reliable.  We had to stop working before we could really assault our to-do list in earnest. We have lists that started more than 2 years ago, they’ve been revised, transformed and nearly completed.  Last Friday the list had 15 tasks completed, 12 yet to do.  Now, Wednesday evening there are 5 to-do’s on the main list taped to the fridge.  (and I’m blogging instead of doing them!)

Fortunately we were saved tonight with a spontaneous friendly pie visit. We love spontaneous visits from friends.

The biggest laugh of the day came when this picture arrived in my inbox.  I spent 6 hours today clearing out more than 50 years of junk and lumber from the basement and under my mom’s porch.  And, fortunately, there was someone there to capture the scene in these photos.

…this one needs a bit of explaining.  15 years ago, a fox had a litter of Kits under the porch. In such a dry place the food remains mummified. The “skate-board” was yet another relic circa 1968. Perhaps the other question is who took that picture? David will never say…

There are clear instructions to “Not fill above the line”

– David

What “Barriers there Be”…

When we first conceived of traveling by the sun and seasons as our guides, we thought of retirement.  A long way off and not guaranteed for any of us.  (Remember, working in a hospital gives a skewed view of life; everyone there is sick.  In the real world, only a proportion of people are sick)

Then we began to dream about what we would do.  Early morning sunrises in the woods drinking strong coffee has always been nice.  We like to hike.  We like to ski.  Even sitting on flat water in a kayak looking at birds is nice.   (Actually, I like to work too.  Work is one of the most native states.  I lose myself in work: PT, projects, gardening, whatever…there is a bliss in accomplishment)  But our skiing and cycling fitness is better now than it will be in 15 more years when the bills are all paid.  Once we decided sooner would be better, we had to figure out HOW.

Then ALL of the reasons we couldn’t do this thing came to mind:

MONEY, TIME, PLACES TO SLEEP, JOBS, BILLS, MONEY, A HOUSE IN BALTIMORE, PEOPLE SAYING “YOU CAN’T DO THAT”, HEALTH INSURANCE,…

Truly the biggest barrier to any of our dreams is inside of our heads.  Once I believe the “Talk”, I cease to plan and cease to accomplish.  Think back.  What kept you working so hard to get through school?  What are you dreaming about now?  I’ll be trickling out a few examples of barriers that jumped in front of me so far on this journey (before we even left town)

here is a bottom view of a 1957 trailer tongue…not what you want pulling your dreams around, supporting the full weight of a camper

– David